6 Tips To Tickle His Ego In Bed

Women are over-confident when it comes to their prowess in the bedroom. There's a misconception that just because it's much easier for men to reach their big O, women don't have to try very hard. Or that they're only interested in the wham-bam, goodnight sweetie. While it might be true for some men some of the time, it's definitely not true for most. Another snag in-between the sheets is the Dreaded Routine. Saturday night, at roughly 10 pm, which is the typical time and day couples slip into the routine. Here are a few ideas on how to blow his mind:

Some appetizers: Send him texts or emails during the day, let's say 3-5, to tell him what you plan to do for him later, in tantalizing detail. It builds up anticipation for you both.

There are loads of foods that work as natural aphrodisiacs. Strawberries, chili peppers, licorice, oysters and chocolate are all stimulants. Prepare a picnic on the bed with his favorite (and if you don't know, then how much fun can you have experimenting?) and feed him.

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If you're in a newer relationship, you really should be open and communicate likes and dislikes. There's the 'fingertip test,' where he lays on the bed and you lightly touch him all over. He lets you know how erotic it is for him, on a scale of 1-10. You could alternately use kisses, too. See where it goes from there.

Tell him a fantasy you have. Or compliment him and praise him when he's doing something you love. There's not much worse for a man to feel he's not doing a good job in the sack because you're holding back or not telling him you don't like something.

Work upon yourself. Serve him an irresistible you, leaving him with no option than to simply pounce. You might be beautiful but there are tactics to be employed in order to make your man go mad for you. To ignite his passion even without doing much you need to consult “The Woman Men Adore… And Never Want To Leave”.

One of the most common complaints men have about women in bed is that they're too passive. Whether it's instigating, or doing the deed, men really don't like having to do all of the work, all of the time. And let's face it, would you? Try adding energy, enjoying yourself with enthusiasm. I'm not saying you have to be a cowgirl but it flatters your man when you want him badly.

Full body massages never go astray. Follow it up with a full-groin massage, and he'll be purring like a tiger.

Keep an open mind, and be up for a little experimentation. It doesn't have to be extremely kinky. There are so many new bedroom gadgets, like fingertip vibrators, and erotic films for couples. Expand your repertoire once in awhile. Don't be so shy.

With a few of these ideas, you'll not only improve your own bedroom savvy, but you'll probably encourage and inspire him to new heights.

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